There’s various things you can do to help point him in the right direction.

I have also discovered when things happen more slowly I relax a lot more too. Examples of this include: If he is interested, he may make eye contact that lasts longer than a friend's eye contact would. Show interest and attention when he does talk and he will be feel more and more at ease with you. He’s not the chattiest. If it's the latter and he takes forever to text you back, he's probably not that interested in you. My first response was extreme disappointment, but I texted back with a "That's okay! Of course I am a woman, so I notice immediately that I am sending the first text every day. If that doesn’t tell you he’s not interested, what will? A one-word text is the death of any conversation. That does not mean he doesn't like you. He may be interested in someone else at the moment and only texts you when he's available. But now, he has family coming to town & I haven't heard from him in 4 days. This way he can ask you for all the things he ’ s been thinking of asking you under the guise of being belligerent. I am still pretty shy around girls but I have come out of my shell a bit since then. I hope everything works out for you and your friend :). Wrong. I must realize that even though he seems like the perfect person, there are many other "perfect" guys out there.

He won’t be able to stand still, and he will constantly move his feet or fidget his fingers, and he will lean toward you and then pull back again. Not just for him either; it goes for his would-be date, too. Don't come through as needy! His friends or others have mentioned nothing. Here’s the big difference in dating a shy guy. She enjoys writing her own fictional pieces, reading a variety of young adult novels, binging on Netflix, and of course soaking up the sun. What if he’s showing a lot of signs of shyness, but still wants to have sex? This is another way that men show their affection. Yes, guys can be afraid of rejection, too. I feel like I’m desperate. I have not bailed, but once I had to go to the bathroom to catch my breath. There is a ‘bro code’, where guys know not to push it if you’re not the right girl. Doesn’t seem to have a sexual bone in his body, the last guy you can imagine hassling you for sex. It's entirely possible that the guy you're interested in is just a bad texter. He doesn’t check in when you haven’t talked in a few days. He wanted to wait 30 days to have sex so we could get to know each other & I agreed. Do you know that is the only thing in my life I can say I regret...not telling him. He saw your message and he’s choosing to ignore it. Be wary of being used if he is hassling you for sex. His friends tell you he’s shy, but interested. Thank you for sharing this online. I guess I'm just trying to understand what's going on in my life as well as help others that are in need some sort of assistance in their lives. If he likes you then he’s thinking about you, and if he’s thinking about you, he’s texting you.